Book Review: Scammed!


In college I majored in Social Work so topics such as the elderly, homeless, and more are often on my mind, so when I was approached to review “Scammed,” I couldn’t wait to read it.

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“Scammed” is the book that helps the elderly and children of the elderly prepare themselves to avoid predators.

“When Art Maines’ beloved step-father Bill was cheated out of thousand of dollars; Art went on a mission to ensure no other family experiences this tragic crime.”

In “Scammed” Art provides a 3 step scam prevention and recovery program based on his training as a social worker, therapist, and his extensive research.  Suitable for seniors or children with elderly parents, SCAMMED will help you:

*Understand the most common types of scams

*Learn the psychological ploys used by scammers so that you can spot them immediately

*Create a scam prevention plan

*Recover from a scam with your dignity intact

*Use the resources in your community if you suspect a scam

This book really opened my eyes to another issue I had never even thought about when it comes time to take care of your elderly parents, grandparents, and yourself.

Those that prey upon others through different scams.  This book prepared me for what to look out for, what kind of scams are out there, and how to deal with it if it does happen.

Art does a great job of showcasing the different kind of scams, and later on in the book breaks down what mindset happens between a scammer and his victim, and how to recover from being scammed.

The book breaks down into four main chapters: Getting Scammed and the Recovery Steps, Emotional Challenges and the Psychology of Scamming, Prevention: The scam-resistent elder, and putting the steps into practice with three common problems.

It was a good read especially for anyone taking on the role as a caregiver, or children with aging parents.

About the Author:

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Art Maines, LCSW, is a license clinical social worker in private practice, speaker, and expert in elderly fraud recovery and prevention.  He earned his Master’s Degree in social work from Washington University in St. Louis, MO.  Art and his stepfather Bill live in St. Louis, where Art is an avid cyclist and champion for helping others.

 

Disclosure: I was provided a copy of the book SCAMMED for review purposes.

 

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My First Blowout!! and chance to win ends 3/05!


Last week, Lotus Salon and Spa in Costa Mesa had a wonderful open house where lots of people were invited out for complimentary services from makeup to getting braids to eyelash extensions, mini facials and blowouts.

Being in LA, I have heard about all these fancy blow out places, but I never actually experience what a blowout was.

Well, after my first blow out with Lotus Salon and Spa, I am completely sold.  Prior to last week I was really beginning to hate my hair.  It was getting pretty long, snarls were beginning to happen more and more and it was losing it’s shine and luster.

Boy, did my eyes pop open when I realized how awesome a blow out was for my hair:

Now lets see the before picture:

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The hair kind of just hung down, did it’s own thang, and got snarled in the process.

Now are you ready for the after picture?

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The back.  Straight, blown out, and perfect.  A lot of bloggers came up to me that evening telling me, “I had no idea your hair was that long.”  Well, it is… the hairstylist “Natalie” who was absolutely great mentioned it was at least 30 inches.  I knew my hair was long, but hearing it in numbers was a completely different story.

And the front:

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Just by having this blowout, I felt more pretty, more like a woman, and embraced the evening.  The blowout lasted for the next several days, and loved how easy it was to brush through my hair, and how straight it stayed.  I can’t wait until my next one.

So, would you like to try out your own blowout at Lotus Salon and Spa?  Well, one lucky reader has a chance at winning 25 dollars off their next hair service from Lotus Salon and Spa and Costa Mesa

Retail Value: 25 dollars

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Disclosure: I was provided with a complimentary Blowout on behalf of Lotus Salon and Spa

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Is Photo Editing Going Too Far? by Jamie Noel


Today on the blog we have a guest post by Jamie Noel.  Here’s more info about her:

Hi, I’m Jamie. I joined Digital Exposure (@digitalexposure) last year after completing my degree course in media studies. I am an assistant photographer and manage the company’s website and I.T.

Is Photo Editing Going Too Far?

The camera doesn’t lie. We have come to hear this saying over the years but as time goes on it loses meaning, as in this day and age the camera does lie, its’ fair to say it lies a lot. Where do we draw a line between some minor retouching to image manipulation? It is a tough line to draw but in the era where public image is vital we need to discover a social standard.


Enhancing or just plain changing?
A controversial picture recently put photo editing in the spotlight. The 25th edition of Elle had actress Gabourey Sidibe on the cover. At first thought you think to yourself “great, an independent African American overweight woman on the cover of Elle” but on closer look you begin to ask questions like why is she so pale? She looks ill. But then it hits me, she was meant to look pale. The photo retouching is so drastic that news channels around the world are questioning the legitimacy of the image. This raises so many moral and ethical issues around lightening the skin of an actress just to increase sales. In a world where image rules surely this is taking it a step too far.
When did editing become the norm?
In the past there was a taboo when digital editing and photo retouching was used, it would in some cases ruin careers. However this is no longer the case and it’s hard to see when this happened. It is the responsibility of the photographer to ensure the photograph shows what is actually there. If every image is manipulated then the public will question each image they see and this questions the honesty of photographers and puts them all in one bracket which they do not want to be in.
Social Impacts:
The magazines and newspapers are littered daily with images of celebrities and this has a huge impact on the young generation of today. They idolise famous people and look to them for styles and trends. The commercial photography market is indeed indulged in the photo-editing art and this is directly affecting huge amounts of teenagers. It makes them try to aspire to celebrity images which are not possible to achieve. Young girls want to look like Megan Fox or Beyonce and they think what they look like in magazines is what they are actually like, but this is not the case. Commercial photographers also have a social obligation in my opinion, yes they are allowed to slightly edit the image to bring it in its best light but drastically changing and editing the image to create a false sense of beauty shouldn’t be allowed or tolerated by the public, as it just creates a lie.
Summary:
It is clear to see that photo editing is a very touchy subject and there are many views from both sides of the fence. But I do believe it is in the best interest of commercial photography to limit the amount of editing done on pictures as it will in the long run help maintain their credibility and allow the public to trust them again.

So, what are your thoughts on Photo Editing?? Has it gone too far, do you like how it’s changed the outcome of photos or are you a naturalist like me in doing very little with photo editing software?  Lets weigh in.

 

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